Community Service
For my community service, I volunteered at
In our community and in the world, there are many people who have either mental, or physical disabilities, or both. Despite their setbacks, these people can still prove very valuable to society, and live happy, healthy lives, but may require a little more help than others do. In the past, people with disabilities have been viewed as inferior, and have most unfortunately been often treated with cruelty and contempt. Fortunately today, our society is becoming more accepting of differences, helped along by programs like Special Olympics and Best Buddies, and there is even a movement afoot to end the use of the derogatory term for people with mental disabilities, the term ‘retard’. This word has been controversial in politics of late, after President Obama made a reference to his bowling skills in correlation to the Special Olympics, and The White House chief of staff Rahm Emanuel used the word “retarded” at a private meeting last year. Both men publically apologized, and brought the controversy over the word into the eye of the public. The campaign became nation wide at the global youth summit of the Special Olympics and soon after, over 250 schools were involved, as well as some organizations based on faith and the movement continues to gain support, with over 78,000 pledges to not use the “r-word” nation wide. This campaign is an effort to bring awareness to the fact that people with disabilities should not be discriminated against, and since the term ‘retard’ has taken on such a negative connotation, it should not be used any more to describe a group of people. The word ‘retard’ technically means to be delayed, and only recently has it begun to be used in general conversation for anything that is presumed to be negative. Through my work at Xenophon, I met many individuals with disabilities who I would never even think to refer to as retarded, because of the extreme negative connotation to the word and the fact that they were in no way slowed down by their disabilities.
Although the government has not participated in promoting the end of the use of the ‘r-work’, the Obama administration has created a plan to empower Americans with disabilities. This plan would attempt to provide Americans with disabilities educational opportunities necessary to their success, and end discrimination as well as promote equal opportunity, and other improvements to their quality of life. Whether the Obama administration will come through on all these promises remains to be seen. They have, however, already begun to help families with children with disabilities by making it illegal for health care providers to deny children coverage under their parent’s plans because of pre-existing conditions. This law, which is part of the health care reform, is extremely beneficial for children with disabilities because higher rate of health problems they experience as compared with the rest of the population. It is unfortunate that health care companies were unable to take this initiative on their own, and needed government encouragement to do so. They may have only done it because they will be getting many new customers, because of health care being mandatory, that there will not be as great an impact on their profits if they cover people more prone to health problems. I believe that it should have been made a law a lot sooner, since it is a form of discrimination, and we are a country based on equality. But unfortunately in the constitution, there is nothing about health care, since it was a nonexistent issue to our founding fathers, and this is why it has taken so long for any president to initiate a change in policy. It will hopefully take some of the financial strain off parents and will hopefully lead to more parents being able to keep their special needs children, rather than put them up for adoption. The need for parents to take care of their special needs children is greater than ever at the present time because with the disastrous financial effects of the recession, many states have been forced to cut their funding to important and necessary programs, like foster care.
For long term effects, I believe that more services should be made more readily available to those of our population who need it most. And as the Democratic Party has been in the past more socially progressive than the Republican Party, I am optimistic that many necessary changes will be made, in spite of the current economic situation. But now, I fear that with cuts to extremely vital programs such as foster care, we will have an entire generation of children who have suffered from lack of a stable home life, which leaves them ignorant to many social situations that can only be learned from a functional family. These individuals will undoubtedly have emotional damages to show for their missing proper care. Children with special needs especially need a stable home life in order to be able to thrive, which is rarely found when being bounced around in foster care. This may produce many individuals incapable of functioning in normal society, and consequently need to be institutionalized. This I believe will cost the government much more than if they had just been able to pay more families for their foster care, so that they may find a permanent homes. Those willing to adopt a child with special needs are in my opinion, saintly in the extreme. There is said to be nothing more difficult than raising a child who needs constant attention, and can be un-gratifying if there is any expectation that they will be able to function normally in the world. From talking to parents at Xenophon, I have learned that appreciating the little things can really make all the difference, and taking things one day at a time, can teach patience and understanding. Parents there are not concerned on whether or not their child will make the soccer team, or get into a certain college, they have learned to appreciate the fact that their child learned a new word, or was able focus on the instructor for a longer time than usual. If all parents were as patient as these, there is no telling what the world would be like, but I can only imagine the cost it must have taken to get to this mindset. The realization that your child will probably never go to law school, or get a PhD must be devastating in this area especially, seeing as nearly everyone is hyper-driven to succeed. Programs like Xenophon give the children a much better chance to go out into the world. But sadly even though Xenophon is a non-profit organization, few families have access to such a luxury, either because of time constraints or location. If the government were able to endorse more programs like Xenophon, even if they are not Hippotherapy, or Therapeutic riding programs, the country may see an increase in the number of individuals able to contribute to society in a meaningful way, which would be beneficial to all parties involved, and lead to the improvement of our society for years to come.